Types of love [Druid study]







Types of love [Druid study]
Ancient Greeks recognize 7 types of love - which one defines you?
How do you define love? Is it the first dance at your parents' wedding? The comfortable silence between best friends? The magic of holding your newborn child?
There are many different types of love, and within each one lies a whole landscape of complex feelings and rewarding moments.
Ancient Greeks recognize 7 types of love Each valuable in its own way, and each one is necessary to have a healthy and happy life. Which ones are strong in your life? Which ones need more attention?

Here are the seven types of love, according to the ancient Greeks:



1. Philautia
It is the love we have for ourselves. Honestly, this is where all love begins. When our relationship with ourselves is strong, all the other loves in our lives seem to fit together. Philautia comes in two forms. One is a kind of false self-love, similar to arrogance and narcissism. It involves a taste for money, fame and power. This kind of self-love is defined by an inclination to face the greater good. In contrast, a healthy Philautia is characterized by self-esteem, confidence and a commitment to take care of ourselves and others. This allows us to direct the love we have for ourselves to the world around us.

2. Pragma
It is a love based on dedication to the greater good. In a pragmatic love. Romance and attraction are often separated in favor of shared goals and compatibilities. This kind of love is often seen in couples who formed out of an arranged marriage or political alliance. It also inspires couples to make their relationship work for the sake of their children. Pragma is the kind of deep love and commitment that drives us to do the right thing. Many relationships begin as Eros or Ludos and later evolve into Pragma, when these simpler forms of love are not enough to sustain them.

3. Ludus
It is the opposite of Pragma - although it can often grow to the other as time and circumstances change. Ludus is a more fun form of love. It is defined by play, joy and lack of commitment. This is the kind of love we can feel when we dance with a stranger or date a classmate. In contrast to the deep dedication that characterizes pragmatic love, Ludus' only shared goal is pleasure. Ludus is fun, but it cannot last on its own. Over time, it either disappears or grows for Eros or Philia.


4. Eros
It is the type of relationship we often associate with the word "love". This type is characterized by romance, passion and desire. Eros is the Greek name for cupid, who shoots people with their arrows and causes this type of attraction. He is often portrayed as a blindfolded child, suggesting that Eros often attacks without reason. This kind of love is the most dangerous, but it is also what we pursue with all our hearts. It consumes us completely and defies any logic.

5. Philia
It describes the shared feeling of warmth we have with our brothers or close friends. It is sincere, platonic and mutually beneficial. This goes beyond Eros and Ludos, so it would be wise to prioritize this kind of love over the most passengers. Often, lovers can develop to share that connection. They can tell you that your spouse is your best friend. This is something to aim for, since Philia is one of the most powerful connections that two people can share. These relationships are intimate, authentic and secure.


6. Storge
It is the very special kind of love that parents have for their children. Like Philia, this kind of love is powerful and eternal. However, unlike Philia, it is not a feeling of love between equals. Instead, it describes a relationship of parents who care for a child. It also differs from Philia in that it is unconditional. The child has no responsibility to the parents. On the contrary, parents love her exactly as they are. Storge is what inspires parents to forgive their children, unconditionally. Parents with a strong sense of Storge will make any sacrifices for their child and will not ask for anything in return.
7. Agape
It is the universal sense of love that we all aspire to feel. Agape is an unconditional love for all living beings. This is the kind of love that gives us the desire to do good. These feelings can inspire us to volunteer, save the planet, or perform a simple act of kindness. They help us to act with compassion and altruism. True agape is characterized by a strong connection with nature, humanity and the universe. That's where good karma comes from. When we feel Agape, we are at our closest to God. “There is never a time or place for true love. It happens accidentally, in a heartbeat, in a single intermittent and throbbing moment, “wrote Sarah Dessen.

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